Pros and cons of online dating in college
Our grandparents can tell us about all of the stress, anxiety, and uncertainty that came with asking someone out “back in the day.” But there are two different kinds of stress; distress – which can be debilitating and scary – and eustress – which is the kind of excited, nervous, first-day-back-to-school sort of tension.
The latter is the spice that we need when dealing with romantic possibilities; it’s the kind of feeling that we later recall as butterflies and knots in our stomach that make for a great story.
Even if you think you know the person online, you don’t really.
With apps, the information about the other person is just vaguely given to us so that we can judge a person based on their picture and two to three “biographical” lines they can write about themselves, like how much they bench press.
One really cool app is Bumble, which I only heard about recently; but the best thing about this app is that it requires girls to make the first move and talk to the guy, or else the “connection” ominously disappears forever; very cool, empowering, and just goes to show that the opportunities are endless.
Even on a big college campus, as a senior I sometimes feel like there’s no one else left to meet.
Odds are, once you finally get around to meeting the person on the other end of the line, you will have had at least a few conversations over an app or site, which will make it much easier to find topics to talk about in real life. The cool thing about technology used for dating, is that different concepts are created for different types of people.
And unlike Facebook stalking, you won’t have to worry about accidentally letting it slip that you know his aunt went to Italy on vacation in 2013. Although we make fun of sites like Farmersonly.com, everybody needs an outlet to find people who like similar activities and lifestyles.
In the past decade, online learning has become more accessible as potential students discover that no matter what their daily obligations, they can find ways to obtain degrees while staying within their work and life schedules.
Many accredited colleges such as Florida National University are now offering online learning programs, and the federal government recently started making data about online enrollments and academic performance available to researchers.