Mormon speed dating
So if it’s not someone you want to marry, break up and move on as soon as possible.” Here is a sequence of comments from a recent conversation on the subject of dating with a group of friends: I have several non-LDS friends who are my age and have either never had a boyfriend or have gone through decade-long dry spells.
I think dating is more trouble than it’s worth for a lot of people, and it just gets to be more trouble as you get older. There is definitely a generational shift on this, although I can’t say what the real norms are. I know lots of non-members who are non-daters as well.
I believe this dynamic is also carried over and amplified by our segregation of the sexes even after marriage, and our odd institutional fear of men and women being incapable of real, non-sexual friendship.” This conversation took place between two married Mormon women friends: “I never dated anyone before ****** and only went on one or two dates before then.
A close friend from his youth married a short time ago, his new wife was his first serious relationship in over a decade.
If it’s broad enough to be a cultural phenomenon, there needs to be lots of somethings that need changing, starting at the top and extending downward.
We’ve become expert in needless suffering.” I’ve wondered the same thing as I’ve watched kids in my mostly LDS neighborhood and my own children.
I think his subtext was simply putting flint and steel in the same drawer.
But some of those in the dating scene, especially those progressing into the fifth decade (and that fraction seems to be growing) may feel neglected to the point that dropping out feels inevitable.