Hardcore dirty chat convos
I prefer to call it “erotic talk”, but that’s a subject for another day.) I’ll get into specific phrases you can use momentarily, but first, some guidelines to help you get your black belt from the dirty talk dojo.
A good rule of thumb with dirty talk is to tell your partner what you want to do to them/with them before you’re actually doing it, and then, while you’re doing it, specifically describe what it is you like about it.
It’s a great way to encourage them to give you more of that thing, and also gives your sexual play the added edge of becoming more of a multi-sensory experience.
For example, you might have a female partner with a relatively high sex drive, but she only seems to get revved up when she’s “in the mood”, and you’re always left guessing as to when that is.Any statement about what you have enjoyed doing with them in the past, or that you are envisioning doing with them in the future, is a great way to ease into a more vocal sex session.And while you’re fooling around, give your partner real time feedback about what you’re enjoying.This is why erotic books like are infamous smash hits among female readers.Meanwhile, guys are dominating porn usage because their arousal has more directly visual triggers.