Get bored easily dating
I think, looking back its that it was an addiction to the 'rush'.I don't think it had anything to do with any deep psychological stuff or 'commitment phobia' - just that the whole 'brand new' process is fun, and the type of connections that allow for truly lasting long term connections are not as common as people would like to think.After a while you realize they are not that exciting. __________________ The only philosophy which can be responsibly practised in face of despair is the attempt to contemplate all things as they would present themselves from the standpoint of redemption.
They will be your emotional rock, encourage and support you, have integrity by following through on what they say and give without expecting anything in return. This is what makes someone too easy or unattainable and part of attraction and desire (want what you can't have).
I'll start dating someone new and I'll be real into them for 3 or 4 months and then my interest level will just hit rock-bottom and I don't care about them anymore..... Its like they can't hold my interest for more than 16 weeks.
There have been 3 or 4 women I dated that were able to keep my interest level high for quite a long time, as in years, but even with them I eventually lost interest (or they did)....
So know the difference and figure out what you want.
Looks alone will not guarantee you will land a "Good Guy" though. In addition to trying to get to know one another, also realize that the dating ritual is a push/pull game.